16 June 2012

We're getting closer with each passing moment...

The 16th of each month happens to be my favorite day of the month...
It means I am officially one month closer to walking down the aisle with Beau waiting for me at the end.

So in honor of being 1 year, 2 months away from my wedding, today's post is dedicated to just that -- weddings!

BRIDES magazine posted 10 great tips - some of which I knew, some of which I never thought of - that I want to share with you today. And before you ask: no, this is not a sponsored post, just good tips I found the other day while looking at ideas.

1) "Know the neighborhood. Drive around the area of your venue before your wedding day," says Nisa Lee, a Pelham, New York, planner. "Be on the lookout for the closest ATM, hardware store, drugstore, liquor store, and stationery store, in case you have any last-minute needs during your party." Make note of the opening and closing times of each one.

2) "Think through the entire event a few weeks before the wedding from the guest's point of view," says New York City's Xochitl Gonzalez. "Every minor detail should be covered, like who will hand out the programs and how to shuttle guests from the church to reception."

3) Make sure you have a few extra seats and dinner setups (plates, flatware, glasses, and napkins) for any surprise guests who show up, suggests Tara Wilson of Fort Worth, Texas. It happens more often than you'd think!

4) Buy a fancy umbrella that you wouldn't mind being seen standing under, just in case it's raining when you're taking outdoor photos, says Lee. Think of it this way: If it pours (or drizzles), you get to pose with a cute prop!

5) "Before you send out the invitations, recruit a friend to drive the MapQuest or venue-provided directions to make sure they really work," says Gonzalez. She should follow the instructions exactly as written. This way, if something's not clear, you'll have time to rewrite them.

6) Include floral tape and corsage pins in your emergency kit. "When Laura Bush was First Lady, we did a wedding she attended, and a guest accidentally spilled wine on her pale blue jacket lapel," says Todd Fiscus of Dallas. "We whipped up a corsage made of flowers from the buffet station to cover up the stain. No one else knew!"

7) Pack a pair of neutral sandals (they don't have to be "wedding" shoes) in your day-of bag in case a broken heel or a blister makes your shoes unwearable, says San Francisco's Kelsey Sheofsky.

8) "For an at-home wedding, have a plumber and an electrician do routine maintenance a few days before, to help ensure lights don't blow and toilets don't overflow on the big day," says Wilson. Have their phone numbers handy for the event, too.

9) Alphabetize your table cards by last name. Brides often arrange these cards (also known as escort cards) according to table number, but since it takes time for guests to find their spots, this can create a bottleneck, says Gonzalez.

10) Pretend the wedding is on Wednesday (assuming it's really on the weekend). Finish everything—including paying balances and putting gratuities aside in envelopes—by the Tuesday before your wedding. "This way all the little details will be done, and you'll have a few days to just enjoy your family and friends and relax," says Gonzalez.

—Barrie Gillies, BRIDES magazine

Happy Saturday! It's a gorgeous one here in NJ!


Nichole said...

I def agree with tip#6 (the first one you posted)! Stuff you will worry about most won't even notice. Happy planning!

Heather @ Cookies For Breakfast said...

Agree with #8! My SIL got married in October - and there was a surprise October BLIZZARD. And the wedding was not in Alaska... it was New England. Some people couldn't come to the wedding because the weather was so bad, and she couldn't get photos where she planned, BUT, she ended up getting some awesome impromptu photos in an old library, and got the most amazing photos of the bridal party in the snow with orange & yellow fall leaves still on the trees. SO unique!

Happy planning as you get closer and closer to the big day!